Mistress Secrets: Why Seek to Claim Him? | One Is Not Enough

WHY SEEK TO CLAIM OR OWN HIM…

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A mistress should not seek to claim another woman’s husband for that will become another ball game entirely. He may not be the right material suitable to be her own husband. That’s why in some things it is better to hire or to borrow but definitely not to own.

The mistress’s role allows a woman to claim our own life. It gives freedom and space where there is no need to be in too much haste.

This role is a part of life’s intake and it is not to be taken as a mistake. If at times we find ourselves alone at night with no one to hold tight, that too is life’s right.
It’s for us to experience, get to feel and be aware of the differences.

Many like myself, have come to feel the difference between being the wife and being the Mistress and many like myself have come to love it this way.

Whether or not we are married or single, whether we’re mistress’s or wife’s, in today’s world as women the dice is rolling heavily against us from a man’s point of view, as they’re after getting pussy, love, comfort, and food with gravy on top.

Yet not all women want to be married and we carry our needs to be fucked. How often and how much, that is down to each of us. But for me a bit of fucking is better to none at all. What is ours we get to partake in Life’s doing. As being married does not bring guarantees, only one’s own efforts do. My marriage offered to me “wait and see” while my life was “here and now” to be. I had to accept that I was not here to live another’s life, but to live and change my own.

I had to sit upon my own stool. Feel my own pain and joys. Experience life’s gifts with happiness like they are toys.