This idea of cheating is something I feel strongly about enough to voice my opinion as a mistress.
There’s a need I find for us to address and face about our “self love and vanity” which makes us
believe we’re to own each other, especially if we’re married to a person. Many
are unaware that we are composite of many that’s relating to the three aspects to our
being, body, mind and soul. No one person or one thing satisfies all each is apart to the whole. There are some to
compromise, some to sacrifice or accept it’s down to one’s choice.
Many use marriages as means of control or to dictate the other person’s life in
what they’re to do under the umbrella to love. Its for us to be aware each
person sits on their own stool and they we cannot change. Many assuming to be
already there being his wife, and is unable to switch their position to get a
glimpse of how things could be seen or felt to their husband. Just wearing
a ring as Mrs. This or That seems to be enough for many leaving the man
void of love.
This concept of ownership has allow us to leave out the importance of building
relationships through respect and valuation taking into account the
other person feelings from where they’re. We show what we would like others to hold
and belief of us, and is unaware it’s coming from our false imaginary
perception we hold and carry of ourselves.
Ownership is not apart to
Creation’s plan all is intermixed one the other. The sun, the earth, the moon mingles and works together though separate in themselves from one another.
To us there’s one side on the outside and another on the inside and this runs
right across the board in our lives. From we knew of ourselves we have been
fed on false perceptions of ourselves to hold and unable to see it.
This to do with why a man needs for his mistress, there are three aspects to
his being in need of their own source of food in order to be, his wife
supplies him with one side, his mistress another and the rest comes to him
in between.
And for each person it’s different as we don’t know who we will meet. Will
it be a treat for us to greet, or a fear for us to be aware? And these
things comes to us in their own time, we are not given or shown all at
once its bits by bit they come.
If he says he loves me in this moment its only one part to him saying
that, it may not be so the next moment when the other side to him steps in.
one side could be saying it through his feelings and the other could be
from his thoughts or sensations. In taking ourselves to be one and the same at all
times, is one of our gravest fallacy.
A man needs his mistress to find balance himself…”and in making him feel like
a man is the most important thing to him it what he seeks”.
This his mistress does even if she is regarded as second hand…how to make
him feel himself real, this he’ll keep even while he is asleep.
He is using his own tool; his own means that makes him happy, is he not
entitled to his own happiness…when his breath leaves his body is he not on
his own then.
In life we to dare to be the all we’re to be, many
Yet to see the all is in and around us given freely.
Nothing stands alone, no one is an island
We need to take and give to one another
So let’s let it be.
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